Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. He has spent years building his practice and is a busy, highly successful pediatric surgeon who is compassionate and respected by everybody, but I think by nature, it is hard for him to be empathetic or to relate to more personal issues. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. He says that I should be happy that he is giving me all the comforts of life. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. On his days off he sleeps all day long. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. We have lunch and have each others undivided attention while the kids are at school. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. Love in Different Languages.
He just saw someone die or gave a devastating diagnosis or did an incredibly complex surgery with potential complications. The church is very important to her. Its always for his prior commitment that we always end up cancelling our plan of being together. When she goes on a mission, she will go through the temple which means she will be wearing garments. We had lots of sex and fun.
Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. This has all put an incredibly strain on our 2-year marriage we have been together for a total of almsot 8 years.
If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. You knew exactly what you signed up for when you married a doctor. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb.